Things don’t always go your way, that’s nothing new. How do you deal with your challenges? Do you think that you’re an unlucky person or do you think that everything happens for a reason?
It can be difficult to say yes to life when something that you perceive as negative happens to you and just don’t see a reason for it. But nobody has said that things will always go your way, so why does everyone want them to? I think the reason is that most people don’t even know what’s best for them, although they might have numerous ego-based ideas about it. If everything always went your way, how would you ever develop and grow? The challenges that you’re given are contributing to your development, and you’re never given more than you can master.
I have experienced many times that something that I perceived as a negative event turned out to be very positive. It took me time to realize it, but in the end I was grateful that it happened! I’m sure you have experienced it as well?
If you think about it logically: isn’t it insane to resist what has already happened? It already is, so why not accept it and believe that there’s a meaning with it instead of resisting it? Imagine something that seems as unnecessary as being stuck in a traffic jam – there is really no purpose for that and no way to escape! What is wrong with being mad about a traffic jam, you might ask? When you resist something, you release negative energy and you are going to attract more events that resonate with this negative energy, meaning that a traffic jam could end up ruining your whole day. Do you know about the law of attraction?
Next time you are stuck in a traffic jam or experience something else that you perceive as negative, I encourage you to accept it, because it already is, and believe that it’s happening for a reason. Follow your breath and stay in the moment. Trust that universe is taking care of you, as it only wants the best for you.